Monday, June 29, 2009

Listening and hearing skills


So here are the tips to increase your listening and hearing skills:

Focus
Pay attention to what is being said to you, do nothing else give it your 100% attention.

Tone of caller
Listen to the emotion of the caller through the tone of their voice.

Ask relevant questions
This gives you the opportunity to let your caller/person know that you are hearing and listening to exactly what they are saying, and also to get a better understanding of the situation.

Do not interrupt
Allow the caller/person to finish what they are saying before you begin speaking.

Do not pre-empt
You have no idea what is going to be said so do not pre-empt any conversation listen to what is being said to gain full facts.

Re-cap
Go over facts and confirm what you have already understood of the conversation get clarification.

Always have a pen and paper
Take notes of important facts, so that you can re-cap correctly including the name of the person you are having the conversation with.

Ask for a repeat
If you miss heard or did not understand fully then ask them to repeat what they have said to ensure that you allow 100% comprehension.
Even if you don't get to do every one of these tomorrow, incorporate at least one of them that you may not already use and encourage others to do the same.
Then we may all get to have pleasant telephone experiences.

Friday, June 26, 2009

Are you hearing me?

Have you ever been in the position on being in a conversation with someone maybe an individual on a personal level or with a business associate or with a company and they do listen to anything you are saying to them, or in fact not hear anything you have said to them.

How many people in this world have the gift of having ears and not just one, but two but never use them to their full potential?

I have come across so many people who readily do not listen to what is being said to them, and they only hear the story in their head about the situation, and I have been contacted today by a client who asked the very question “what is the reason nobody listens to what I am saying to them”

So do you use your listening and hearing skills to their full potential?

If not then what is the reason for that?

The meanings are clear so what is the reason people choose not to use these profound skills? – is it because they are more visual than auditory? Or is it something to do with responsibility? maybe it is about them not paying attention in a way that is necessary in order to hear and listen to what is being said?

Listening is to pay attention, or take note.

Hearing – is paying attention, take notice of, be informed, be made aware, find out, gather information, understand, consider.

It is a real art and skill to be able to fully utilise the potential but not impossible, the meanings are self explanatory but the outcome appears to be somewhat lost in the fog.

If your skills are not as good as they could be then what are you going to do about that?
I will leave those questions with you, and Monday I will post 8 steps to increase your listening skills.
Until then enjoy your day, and enjoy life that is what it is there for.








Tuesday, June 23, 2009

What is Divine Manifesting



In every moment we are manifesting,through every choice and decision that we make, and with every feeling, thought, and reaction, and with every desire which you set into action.

It is your consciousnes, awareness, understanding and also your inner light which determine what you are going to manifest and then experience in the physical.

Divine manifesting is not about compromise, it is about creating the life you love, experiencing satisfying relationships, and a good quality of life, pleasurable activities, and fantastic work.

It entails creating a life of love, harmony, joy, peace, inspiration, freedom and wholeness.

It comes with finding the inner space from which all divine manifesting takes place, this centre is filled with illumination and stillness, and it is in this space that you connect with your Divine self.

Despite what your beliefs are about the "Divine" I guarantee you with all my heart that this is the only space that allows you to manifest, despite where you think you have or may have manifested from before.

So just take those blinkers off for a moment, and think about what you have just read.

To create all those wonderful harmonious things into your life and replace the old tatty out grown aspects that no longer serve you but you continue to hang onto because that what humans do, then ask yourself this question:

Am I ready to awaken to the life that awaits me? Yes or No?

Is there something in my life that I am still not completely happy about? Yes or No?

Be honest with yourself because the only person you will be lying to you is yourself.

Then get onto my website for more information of how I can assist you to get to that inner space and create that happiness or balance, or love, or new job that you are passionate about and have always dreamed of having, any of those thing which you are so longing for, let me assist you onto that pathway of satisfaction, peace and harmony.
Give yourself the opportunity to expand yourself on every level of your body and mind.










Monday, June 22, 2009

Happiness v sadness





Happiness v sadness



There comes a time in every ones life where they just question how happy they are, maybe in their work life, maybe in their social life, or just maybe in themselves generally. And if this has ever happened to you then you know it can throws up all sorts of questions and dilemmas.

Maybe you are one of the "lucky" ones who have just managed to sail through life without a glitch, and if you are then please do get in touch I would love to hear your life story.

But for those of you who have or do struggle, then please think about having a coach to guide you, support you, motivate you to take action when it is required, maybe to heighten your awareness and perception, to open your mind up more to allow new beautiful thoughts and creative energies to flow through.

Allow me to show you and guide you back to the pathway of life - you can tap into the unlimited power that lies within you to manifest all you require in your life.

Just stay open and curious, step out of your comfort zone and go to my web site to find out more:

http://www.miawilliams.com/

Sunday, June 21, 2009

There came a natural time for my business to expand, and move in another direction and it found life within coaching.

For many years it is something which I have been passionate about and much of it came naturally although the training assisted me to gain more experience and knowledge for which I am truly grateful.

This blog is going to be packed with information and help for everyone who desires to find a better life for themselves and that could be in terms of quality or satisfaction, or something they have been looking to achieve for many years but have not been able to for whatever reason, or for those who just find life interesting, maybe they are already happy and satisfied with everything in their life currently, but they just may know someone who isn't and they can recommend this blog and my website to others.

It is still a work in progress but please stay with me for the journey of a lifetime, you will not regret it.


If you require any coaching then visit my website:

http://www.miawilliams.com/