Casting blame

Have you ever blamed someone else for a problem, situation, argument, nothing going right in your life?

Well guess what?  Blaming others does not solve anything.  Blaming is simply a path of least resistance.

If it a complicated issue, it is so easy to sit back and blame others, who wouldn't? right.

It is so much easier than working on actually solving the issue, and actually that reflects how painful it may be to look at ourselves for the truth and the source.

I have had a few conversations today where this appeared to be the case, and both times the other person was always to blame.

Mmm lets just look at that for a moment, so the other person is to blame for ........ whatever is the issue, so my questions to you are, do you really know that to be the truth? are they truly and honestly 100% to blame?  You had no part in it whatsoever?

Now I am guessing that you are saying yes 100% the other person is to blame.  Well this is where I am going to ask you to go away and think about this question for a moment what is the reason you are not choosing to take responsibility for the part you played? and yes you played a part if you were involved in any form of conversation/argument etc with this person.

So let me just ask you that again what is the reason you are choosing not to take responsibility for the part you played?

I would be very interested in your response to that question so get in touch and put your opinions forward.

In the meantime have a fantastic week. xxx