“Your wounds do not define you, but rather let them be the precious beacon of light to heal, transform and to ultimately lead you to expressing your authentic Self. Suffering is a signal that one is out of natural alignment, it need not be a way of life” – Dipali
I find this statement just so true and perfect and decided to share it with you. Through the coaching that I do it becomes very clear how much "baggage" people carry around with them, and as Dipali says "your wounds do not define you".
I studied the words closely and had many recal memories about my travels around Australia, as an aboriginal elder taught me something very similar. We are all unique individuals, and we all have our own individual story, you can carry your story with you where ever it is you go in life.
You will also carry the scars of those stories, but then you have a choice about whether to continue to carry the emotional, mental or even physical pain of those stories around with you, or like Dipali describes allowing them to be that precious beacon of light to heal, transform and to ultimately lead you to expressing your authentic self.
That is such a beautiful way of utilising the "dead" energy that runs through the meridians, muscles and cells of the physical body. I know that the aborigines when they tell there story that there is little emotion involved, it is told as a part of who they are at an authentic level - they have released all other energies to the experience which is how they are able to tell the story without the pain that may have been attached. They have all the memories but no emotional attachment.
When I ask others "what is your story" just as the aborigines once asked me, I hear the whole 100% negative version of the story, and it still shocks me that so many people focus on the negative version of life instead of finding all the positives within the story, and trust me when I say despite how negative something appears to be or have been there will be a positive I truly mean it as I have lived a life as a human just like you are. I am no different to any other human in terms of what life may throw at me, I am very different to most people in how I deal or think about things though.
In order to get the best out of any story always head up the positive road, or if you begin on the negative road then ensure that you take your story onto the positive road, as the universe is a very clever tool and sends back to you the experience that is going to match your story. So the more you tell the "negative" version the more the universe is going to send you that version to experience. And then people wonder why they keep experiencing the same "poop" in life.
It is called the law of attraction and I have written on that subject before so I am not going to go into depth on that part.
Your thoughts are your experiences, and so it takes a lot of self discipline and daily training to get the mind to think positive thoughts when there is so much negativity that "appears" to be surrounding people these days.
But one of my sayings is "that maybe so but it is not impossible".
So just for one day give yourself the opportunity to see the positive in everything that happens within your day, even if it is negative, find and look for the positive.
And also remember to give gratitude to everything including that which is negative, as without it you would not have been aware that there could be another version available to you.
Come on people start thinking outside that box you have created around yourself it is not protecting you, all it is doing is stopping you from getting access to your authentic self. And the only way that your authentic light can shine is if you stop putting the darkness around it through fear, control, negative thinking etc.
You true essence is waiting to get out - you will feel free and at peace when you do trust me I know, I have being consciously working on this for over 20 years of my life, and I am so pleased that I persevered even when the going got really tough.
And when the going gets tough that is the time to take REAL action, not stop. When the fear gets real strong it means you are so close to your authentic self and the truth.
Take a deep breath and continue through the veil of fear which is just False Evidence Appearing Real, it has no power only the power we give to it.
So enjoy life as you only get one chance.







