No beginnings and no end

I was speaking with a client the other day, and they said that they had become stuck in a particular area of their life, or at least that was their perception, and had no idea where to begin in putting it right or making it better.

I get asked this a lot and have often found myself saying the very same thing on occassions in my own life, and then realise that I know the answer well at least a bit of it, or enough to get me moving again.

A shamen that I had the honour of working with taught me that there is no beginning and no end and that life is a wheel that continues to move like the earth rotating around the moon or whatever way round it goes, but I think you get what I mean.

So based on the theory that there is no beginning or start and no end as it is a continuous cycle of events, then just by taking action where you are at the current time of thinking that something should be done is the only thing which you should and can do, then you have "begun" another journey to a different destination which holds a different outcome for you.

Of course then there is the other issue about what ending is it that you really wish to create, but if you are looking for the best place to start then stop right there as there is no start, it is just now and now is the only place to begin.

Patterns from the past

Hey you know what it's like when you have a story from the past which just keeps on making itself known to you, when you really thought that you had dealt with it and moved on.

Well have I got news for you....

....it is energy and the reason it is still causing you issues or is replaying aspects of it out in your life now is because there is something which you still have to learn from that experience.

I have a profound way of dealing with such issues, actually I have a few really profound methods, but the one I would like to share with you is the one which I have used with 5 people in the last couple of days.

All of them have contacted me with similar stories which was the first bizarre thing, and then I shared with each of them one of the methods which I use personally, and each of them were relieved that there was something so easy and not complicated to fix these pesky experiences.

Each person was so excited with what I had shared with them, that they were encouraged by that excitement to begin straight away.

I am not saying that your situation or experience is simple, nor am I saying that it is not emotionally overwhelming, but what I am saying is that there is a way to fix it.

So contact me and I will share this amazing method with you - go on what have you got to loose? and what have you got to gain?

I will leave it with you to make the decision which could just change your life for good.

New Moon Eclipse

If there is going to be a day which is seriously good and wonderful for taking our past or at least the bits we are not happy with and kick it into touch once and for all, metaphorically exploding it out into the ethers then this is it.

The New Moon eclipse gives us the opportunity to spring board into our future. It may offer a life changing experience or maybe just something important - or it could be something which completely and mind blowingly turns your life upside down!

The Archangel in charge of the eclipse is Muriel, and the moon is going through Cancer which is about nurturing, home, all things associated to family, emotions and sensitivity and it rules the stomach and breast areas of the body.

Eclipses are really important, they are portals in the ethers which come together and offer us the opportunity to leap through them from one reality into another.

The New moon also brings her gifts in allowing us the opportunity to make wishes, this is available to us each and every month, but this one is extra special because of the eclipse. So take full advantage of this FREE universal service which is being offered on a plate to you.

And for those who have the gifts of reiki build that crystal grid and get wishing.

God/dess luck to everyone and enjoy Grandmother moon she has so many blessings to offer us.

Patience and detachment

Both two very interesting words, so how do they work in a full sentence when you are about to become so frustrated you want to scream and then some, and the more you become frustrated the more it seems to be going in the wrong direction as in not getting better or going how you desire it to, and the more it goes wrong the more frustrated and aaargh you get.

Mmmm I believe that is where patience and detachment come into there own. Breathing helps as well, but for now the lesson is to be patient and detachment from the emotions that are making you feel frustrated and aaargh.

So when things like being stuck in a traffic jam due to an accident and you are on the way to a really important client and about to close the deal which means that you are financially secure for the next however many months, or a computer just won’t do what you desire it to do there are two choices and many blessings.

Actually there are always two choices in anything, now the first choice is that you can react or you can respond. Now as you guessed the react brings about negative feelings like frustration, anxiety, tension, stress, overwhelm, etc. Whereas, respond brings about relaxation, freedom, calmness, clarity etc.

So just based on that I know which one I would choose.

Then there are the blessings so for scenario 1 above it could be the blessing that it is not you who has been involved in that accident and that you will still get to your appointment, maybe not when you choose to but you will, or that the accident has actually stopped you from having an accident by making you either slow down or stop completely.

Scenario 2 offers the blessings that maybe to stop blaming the computer for just doing what the computer is programmed to do, and accept that it is doing what it is doing because it is a computer, and drop into peace, peace being what it enables you to drop into because it is going wrong or not doing what you desire it to do. And what if it is allowing you to see your response to such a dilemma, and it is that response in which you should be taking notice of not what the computer is doing.

So next time, that you have a lift glitch, a computer glitch, a traffic jam, a long queue at the post office maybe just maybe it could actually be sending you a message.

Be patient and detach your emotions from the situation, this releases the negative vibrations which will hold it in place for longer and allows new lighter fresher vibrations to speed things along without all the drama from you being attached to it.

How serious should life really be?

So what have you done recently that was fun and how long did it last for before you had to be serious again?

Or have you been serious for so long that you have almost forgotten what it is like to have fun?

And yes I am talking about that inner child that still desires to have fun.

When was the last time that you walked in the rain and allowed yourself to get totally soaked through, it is a great refreshing feeling. Go on I dare you to try it next time we have a downpour.

When was the last time you sat on a swing in the park?

Or even got the colouring book out and just coloured for a couple of hours?

Your inner child is still a child and still requires nurturing through life, don’t leave him/her in the closet and forget all about the fun they so love to have.

It is great fun, to have a toy box and keep your colouring books in, or a kite, or even a skipping rope. Go on who is stopping you from still enjoying life. Children never go around being miserable when they are having fun. Watch a Disney DVD Hook is a great one for magical inspiration. Sorry the video would not upload so here is the link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V92OKEUT_Yg

When was the last time you had a picnic, or made a tent and just sat in the garden with your thoughts, or sat in front of an open crackling fire (obviously safety rules do apply to that if you are outside) but it is great. When I was in Australia I learnt from an aboriginal that the natural thing to do when they moved to new ground was to light a fire. It connects you to life, and it is so true.

Just for today, play and have some fun, laughter is a good therapy on its own, but allowing yourself the time to play is so uplifting. Go on give yourself permission today to do something with your inner child.

Having a bad day?

So it is one of those days where everything is going wrong, and you feel that there is nothing on your side.

What if that was perfect, what if that was exactly what was supposed to have happened or be happening.

Then you say so if that is the case what is the point?

Well there is always a purpose to everything which happens, whether you are aware of it or not.

That purpose could be that you have to learn something which is going to benefit you now and in the future.

Even the wrong things in life are in actual fact - perfect and right. They are timed in precision with Universal Law.

So does this happen to you and if so how do you deal with it all? what do you do? Post a comment and let me know your story.

So who are you?

who am I?

What is my purpose?

Am I happy with every aspect of my life today?

Have you ever thought about that question or something similar?

And what answer did you come up with?

And what steps have you taken to ensure that you get a different outcome?

Well I know from experience that you can work all the hours god gives you, you can earn a stupidly huge amount of money for your efforts, you have the house of your dreams, the partner of your dreams, and still something is missing.

Does that sound familiar to yourself or someone that you may know?

So how can that be if you have everything that life can offer you and then some and still feel that something is missing?

The answer to that is within you, it does not come from money, partners, career, houses, or anything material for that matter.

I met someone through coaching who had the above in ways that were almost impossible to imagine and this person continued to produce amazing results in many areas of life, and then came to me and said "but I am not happy - I do not feel fulfilled - I still feel empty".

So if this is something you are or have experienced, then please do get in touch.